{"id":494,"date":"2018-08-09T14:00:27","date_gmt":"2018-08-09T07:00:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ngocbichnguyen.com\/?p=494"},"modified":"2018-08-10T11:03:31","modified_gmt":"2018-08-10T04:03:31","slug":"doi-thay-doi-khi-chung-ta-thay-doi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ngocbichnguyen.com\/?p=494","title":{"rendered":"\u0110\u1eddi thay \u0111\u1ed5i khi ch\u00fang ta thay \u0111\u1ed5i"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hi b\u1ea1n<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u00e0i n\u00e0y m\u00ecnh s\u01b0u t\u1ea7m t\u1eeb th\u1ea7y Ph\u1ea1m Th\u00e0nh Long<\/span><\/p>\n

Tuy d\u00e0i nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc<\/span><\/p>\n

“Xin h\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch… ph\u1ea7n b\u00f4i m\u00e0u l\u00e0 gi\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i b\u00f4i b\u1ea9n trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n b\u0103ng qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o m\u1ed7i b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i kh\u00f4ng? Khi b\u1ea1n nhai k\u1eb9o, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u00ean k\u1eb9o kh\u00f4ng? Khi b\u1ea1n \u0103n c\u01a1m, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c ti\u00eau h\u00f3a n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng? Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111i ng\u1ee7, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c th\u1edf kh\u00f4ng?…<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eddi thay \u0111\u1ed5i khi ch\u00fang ta thay \u0111\u1ed5i B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u00fd th\u1ee9c khi l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y, \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng?<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n l\u00e0m theo ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c.<\/i><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng tr\u00ed \u00f3c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 t\u1ea3ng b\u0103ng. Ph\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n \u00fd th\u1ee9c, v\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn h\u01a1n m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ph\u1ea7n ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n tr\u00ed \u00f3c ta ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m.<\/span><\/p>\n

R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu c\u01b0 x\u1eed – t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u0169 hay h\u00e0nh vi gi\u1ed1ng nhau tr\u1edf \u0111i tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0i.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o m\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ebfn mu\u1ed9n kh\u00f4ng?<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i t\u1eebng ch\u01a1i xe \u0111\u1ea1p v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t anh b\u1ea1n t\u00ean T. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea1p xe v\u00e0o m\u1ed7i bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng l\u00fac n\u0103m gi\u1edd. “Anh T, c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t v\u00e0o 5 gi\u1edd s\u00e1ng mai nh\u00e9?” Anh ta tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: “T\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3”. “Anh c\u00f3 nghe m\u1ea5y gi\u1edd ch\u01b0a?”, “5 gi\u1edd s\u00e1ng. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn!”<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00fang nh\u01b0 d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n, l\u00fac 5:15 s\u00e1ng h\u00f4m sau T \u0111\u1ebfn. Anh ta \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u00fd do: “Con t\u00f4i l\u1ea5y m\u1ea5t c\u00e1i b\u01a1m \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3”. H\u00f4m sau c\u0169ng th\u1ebf. T \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac 5:16. L\u00fd do l\u00e0: “T\u00f4i ch\u01b0a t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a nh\u00e0!”. Ng\u00e0y ti\u1ebfp theo, anh ta \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00fang 5:15. “V\u1ee3 t\u00f4i b\u1ec7nh v\u00e0 th\u1eb1ng con kh\u00f3c qu\u00e1”.V\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u00e0 pin h\u1ebft, c\u00fap \u0111i\u1ec7n, m\u1ea5t ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a xe, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3 l\u00f3t b\u1ecb \u01b0\u1edbt hay c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ec3 trong m\u00e1y gi\u1eb7t.<\/span><\/p>\n

R\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c t\u00f4i n\u00f3i: “T, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y giao k\u00e8o. C\u1ee9 m\u1ed7i ph\u00fat anh b\u1ecb tr\u1ec5 th\u00ec anh ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu ph\u1ea1t 100.000\u0111”. Anh ta b\u1ebd m\u1eb7t qu\u00e1 n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u01a1i xe \u0111\u1ea1p n\u1eefa!<\/span><\/p>\n

T ngh\u0129 anh ta l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n. Anh ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ec5. Nh\u01b0ng trong ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c anh ta \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eadp m\u1ed9t ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n n\u00f3i l\u00e0 “b\u1ea1n l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng tr\u1ec5”… v\u00e0 ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a anh ta. N\u1ebfu T ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean d\u1eady s\u1edbm v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd th\u00ec ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh b\u00ean trong n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a anh ta s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn anh ta \u0111\u1ee5ng ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i c\u00e2y, l\u1ea1c v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ea1. V\u00e0 r\u1ed3i anh ta s\u1ebd h\u00edt s\u00e2u v\u00e0o v\u00e0 n\u00f3i “L\u1ea1i th\u1ebf n\u1eefa – T\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb tr\u1ec5!”<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1eabu bi k\u1ecbch<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 m\u1eabu n\u00e0y. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chu\u1ed7i bi k\u1ecbch.B\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p h\u1ecd tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ed1 v\u00e0 l\u1ee1 d\u1ea1i h\u1ecfi h\u1ecd: “Anh c\u00f3 kh\u1ecfe kh\u00f4ng?”, th\u00ec ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 con m\u00e8o c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1eeba m\u1edbi ch\u1ebft, chi\u1ebfc xe h\u1ecd m\u1edbi ph\u1ea3i sang l\u1ea1i, b\u1ed1 h\u1ecd v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh l\u00e0m ch\u00e1y nh\u00e0, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd v\u1eeba m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea9n \u0111o\u00e1n l\u00e0 m\u1eafc m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee9ng b\u1ec7nh g\u00ec h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd nghe n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u00f4i qua \u00eam \u1ea3 th\u00ec m\u1ed9t gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i trong ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u00ec th\u1ea7m, “\u00ca, kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 th\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c!” v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t mau ch\u00f3ng, m\u1ed9t bi k\u1ecbch kh\u00e1c x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn. H\u1ecd m\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m, h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i ph\u1eabu, h\u1ecd b\u1ecb b\u1eaft…v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u1ea1i tr\u1edd l\u1ea1i b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd xem ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng m\u1eabu n\u00e0y sau, v\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u00ec h\u00e3y nh\u1eadn d\u1ea1ng th\u00eam m\u1ed9t \u00edt n\u1eefa.<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1eabu tai n\u1ea1n<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00e0i g\u1eb7p tai n\u1ea1n. C\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi h\u1ecd c\u1ee9 b\u1ecb tr\u1eadt thang t\u00e9, hay \u0111\u1ee5ng xe, ng\u00e3 tr\u00ean c\u00e2y xu\u1ed1ng, gi\u1eadt \u0111i\u1ec7n v\u00e0 b\u1ecb tai n\u1ea1n xe c\u1ed9.<\/span><\/p>\n

Trong nh\u00f3m ch\u1ee5p \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t em, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n t\u00f4i g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n th\u00ec y nh\u01b0 r\u1eb1ng em ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00e0 em \u0111ang g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, \u0111ang b\u1ecb n\u1ecd b\u1ecb kia. C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng H?<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1eabu b\u1ec7nh ho\u1ea1n<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft ai c\u00f3 m\u1eabu n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng? M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee9 ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea3m l\u1ea1nh 20 l\u1ea7n trong m\u1ed9t n\u0103m. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee9 m\u1ed7i khi c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n l\u1edbn g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ph\u00e1t b\u1ec7nh. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec th\u1ea5y b\u1ec7nh v\u00e0o m\u1ed7i s\u00e1ng th\u1ee9 Hai.<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1eabu l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch s\u1ef1 l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng qu\u00e1n t\u00ednh khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd qu\u00e1 m\u1ea1nh! B\u00e0n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n, h\u1ed3 s\u01a1 b\u1ec1 b\u1ed9n, t\u00f3c tai b\u1eddm x\u1eddm. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111i theo sau v\u00e0 thu d\u1ecdn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 cho h\u1ecd th\u00ec r\u1ed3i trong v\u00f2ng 20 ph\u00fat, v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng, gi\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u1ee7 v\u00e0 xe h\u01a1i, h\u1ed9p \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eeba m\u1edbi qua m\u1ed9t tr\u1eadn cu\u1ed3ng phong.<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1eabu ch\u00e1y t\u00fai<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 g\u1eb7p ai l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ch\u00e1y t\u00fai ch\u01b0a? \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta l\u00e2m v\u00e0o m\u00e0 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea1o ra t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng \u0111\u00f3 cho m\u00ecnh! Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 m\u1eabu n\u00e0y tu\u00e2n theo m\u1ed9t ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 khi n\u00e0o h\u1ecd c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n th\u1eeba l\u00e0 h\u1ecd t\u00ecm n\u01a1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u00eau cho s\u1ea1ch. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb ng\u1ee9a v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i g\u00e3i, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i…x\u00e0i. (N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng gia th\u00ec coi ch\u1eebng b\u1ecb nh\u1ed3i m\u00e1u c\u01a1 tim!) Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra!<\/span><\/p>\n

H\u1ecd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 do n\u1ec1n kinh t\u1ebf, do ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7 hay l\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ecfa \u0111\u00e1ng n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i kh\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ed1n. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu anh t\u0103ng l\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ecd g\u1ea5p \u0111\u00f4i th\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u0169ng b\u1ecb r\u1ed7ng t\u00fai! Th\u1eadt ra l\u00fd do nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00fang s\u1ed1 th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ea1ch ti\u1ec1n, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 do khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd n\u00f3i: “Ti\u1ec1n n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a. N\u00ean ti\u00eau v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 cho xong”. T\u00f4i gh\u00e9t anh nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i n\u00e0y, T \u1ea1!<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1eabu kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay th\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n thu\u1ed9c m\u1eabu n\u00e0y th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 ngay sau khi b\u1ea1n l\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i ngh\u1ec9 ph\u00e9p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 3 ph\u00fat l\u00e0 v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd r\u1ed1i tung l\u00ean v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf.<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 m\u1eabu n\u00e0y th\u00ec h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea1o ra v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee9 lu\u00f4n tin r\u1eb1ng ngay khi ch\u00fang ta r\u1eddi \u0111i th\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c. N, anh mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi em r\u1eb1ng,<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a con em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n em. Em th\u1eed \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ed1 n\u00f3 thay em v\u00e0o m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y th\u1ee9 3 v\u00e0 th\u1ee9 5 \u0111i.<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1eabu thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t \u00f4ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1eb7p t\u00f4i m\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng: “C\u00f4ng ty n\u00e0y \u0111ang l\u00e0m cho t\u00f4i d\u1eabm ch\u00e2n t\u1ea1i ch\u1ed7, s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 ti\u1ec1n thu\u00ea nh\u00e0”.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i h\u1ecfi: “Anh l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao l\u00e2u r\u1ed3i?”<\/span><\/p>\n

Anh ta tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: “Hai n\u0103m”.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i n\u00f3i: “V\u1eady c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec sao?”<\/span><\/p>\n

“Hai n\u0103m”, anh ta n\u00f3i.<\/span><\/p>\n

“Th\u1ebf c\u00f2n tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3?”<\/span><\/p>\n

“Hai n\u0103m”.<\/span><\/p>\n

“V\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa?”<\/span><\/p>\n

“Kho\u1ea3ng 24 th\u00e1ng”.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i n\u00f3i: “Th\u1ebf v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 do \u0111\u00e2u – anh hay l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng ty?” Anh ta tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: “Do t\u00f4i!”<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i n\u00f3i: “N\u1ebfu l\u00e0 do anh th\u00ec t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00f4ng ty!”<\/span><\/p>\n

Trong l\u00fac n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, t\u00f4i k\u1ec3 cho anh ta nghe v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c 5 l\u1ea7n trong 11 th\u00e1ng qua. “Th\u1eadt ra t\u00f4i d\u00e1m c\u00e1 h\u1ebft gia s\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 c\u00f4 ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i trong n\u0103m t\u1edbi”. Chi\u1ec1u h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f4 ta g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n v\u00e0 cho t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 c\u00f4 ta \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf vi\u1ec7c! Qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng li\u1ec1u n\u1ebfu d\u00e1m c\u00e1 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady!<\/span><\/p>\n

B\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u00ec c\u00f4 ta b\u1ea3o t\u00f4i l\u00e0 c\u00f4 ta r\u1ea5t sung s\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00ec th\u1ebf ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i m\u1eabu n\u00e0y l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t hay x\u1ea5u. Ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 th\u1eadt c\u00f3 \u00edch khi ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo m\u1eabu. C\u00f2n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1eabu kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0: “Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt x\u1ea5u xa, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt kinh kh\u1ee7ng, t\u1ea1i sao chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, t\u00f4i \u01b0\u1edbc g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ebft \u0111i!” R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ea1o ra ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00e1i n\u00e0y c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec vui l\u1eafm!<\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00f9 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111i n\u1eefa, Th, anh mu\u1ed1n em d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i, h\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung cho m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 em \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1eabu “t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ed1ng”<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1eabu n\u00e0y, t\u01b0 duy c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 “s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t”. \u0110\u1ebfn b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1eabu n\u00e0o tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng?<\/span><\/p>\n

Tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi email c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i nh\u00e9, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n im l\u1eb7ng khi \u0111\u1ecdc email n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1eabu “t\u00f4i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng b\u1ecb l\u1ee1 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i” (kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p th\u1eddi)<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00f3 bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 trong vi\u1ec7c cho r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111i h\u1ecdc, l\u00e0m kinh doanh, \u0111i ngh\u1ec9…qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm hay qu\u00e1 tr\u1ec5! Ch\u00fang ta l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u0111\u00fang ch\u1ed7 nh\u01b0ng sai gi\u1edd! C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 t\u00e0i th\u1eadt nh\u01b0ng gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi, hay ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang t\u00e0i, ho\u1eb7c gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean t\u1ed1t, t\u00e0i n\u0103ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta….<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1eabu “ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0103n b\u1edbt c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i”<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i th\u00eam kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ec9? Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 m\u1eabu ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng m\u1eabu t\u00edch c\u1ef1c m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1eabu “t\u00f4i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh”<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1edfi ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta l\u1eadp cho m\u00ecnh. N\u00f3 n\u00f3i cho b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o “Lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u0111\u00fang n\u01a1i v\u00e0o \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng?”<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

H\u1ecd \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 kinh doanh khi c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00e0 h\u1ecd b\u00e1n nh\u00e0 ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta x\u00e2y nh\u00e0 t\u1ea1m giam c\u1ea1nh nh\u00e0 h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd \u0111i ngh\u1ec9 v\u00e0 g\u1eb7p ngay nh\u1eefng t\u1ec9 ph\u00fa ch\u1ecbu chi ph\u00ed cho h\u1ecd \u0111i v\u00f2ng quanh ch\u00e2u \u00c2u.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 “L\u00e0m sao h\u1ecd l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf nh\u1ec9?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u01af\u1edbc g\u00ec t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 may m\u1eafn b\u1eb1ng n\u1eeda h\u1ecd!”<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u0111\u00fang n\u01a1i v\u00e0o \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1eabu<\/span><\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f2n m\u1eabu “\u0111i \u0111\u00e2u t\u00f4i c\u0169ng l\u00e0m ra nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n?<\/span><\/strong>“<\/span><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u1eadt!<\/span><\/p>\n

Hay “Khi mua c\u00e1i g\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u0169ng tr\u1ea3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1 c\u1ea3?<\/span><\/strong>“. (v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp v\u1edbi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 “L\u00fac n\u00e0o t\u00f4i c\u0169ng b\u1ecb \u0103n ch\u1eb9t!”) Nh\u1eefng m\u1eabu kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa l\u00e0 “t\u00f4i tin v\u00e0o con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 h\u1ecd l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi t\u00f4i”<\/span><\/strong> v\u00e0 “c\u00e1i g\u00ec t\u00f4i l\u00e0m l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng vui v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng”<\/span><\/strong>. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee9 gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n theo c\u00e1c m\u1eabu t\u1ed1t. V\u1eady c\u00f2n nh\u1eefng m\u1eabu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n theo?<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00ec v\u1eady ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh: “Nh\u1eefng m\u1eabu ch\u1ebft ti\u1ec7t m\u00e0 t\u00f4i b\u1ecb v\u01b0\u1edbng – khi n\u00e0o ch\u00fang s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i? Khi n\u00e0o th\u00ec ch\u00fang ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t?<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0:“<\/span>Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i khi ch\u00fang ta thay \u0111\u1ed5i<\/span>!<\/b>“<\/span><\/p>\n

Thay \u0111\u1ed5i lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 th\u1eed th\u00e1ch<\/i><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1eabu kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng d\u1ec5, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/span>.<\/i><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00f9 cho b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u01a1i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n, v\u00e0 h\u00e3y xem c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u00f4ng qua quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y.B\u1ea1n n\u00ean nh\u1eadn ra ngay \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ngay khi ch\u00fang ta quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh thay \u0111\u1ed5i, ch\u00fang ta g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf. Ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n g\u1eb7p th\u1eed th\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3i xem l\u1ea1i m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 nghi\u00eam t\u00fac mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i hay kh\u00f4ng.H\u00e3y gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0103n ki\u00eang. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 tu\u1ea7n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t cho b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00ednh trong tu\u1ea7n n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u th\u01b0 m\u1eddi d\u00f9ng b\u1eefa t\u1ed1i, ti\u1ec7c cocktail hay l\u1ec5 k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m…T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ea7y th\u1eed th\u00e1ch, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ban \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u1ee9 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 quen v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0103n m\u1eb7c xu\u1ec1nh xo\u00e0ng. Khi m\u1eb7c v\u00e0o b\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed3 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m n\u00f3 b\u1ecb d\u01a1 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ea9y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb d\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed5 tr\u00ean ch\u00e2n ngay khi \u0111i t\u1eeb ph\u00f2ng ng\u1ee7 v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng t\u1eafm, m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i ngay c\u00e1i b\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed3 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t! B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 l\u00e0: “\u1eeam, t\u00f4i l\u00e0 v\u1eady \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c”.<\/span><\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i<\/b><\/span>, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1i m\u1eabu c\u0169 c\u1ee9 b\u00e1m r\u00edu l\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n. V\u1eady l\u00e0m c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta thay \u0111\u1ed5i? Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec1u g\u1eb7p tr\u1edf l\u1ef1c. T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, ph\u1ea3i s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi n\u00f3. S\u1ef1 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu c\u01b0 x\u1eed<\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu c\u01b0 x\u1eed ngay t\u1eeb khi m\u1edbi sinh ra. Khi ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f3c v\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fd do: ch\u00fang ta kh\u00e1t, n\u00f3ng, l\u1ea1nh, c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i, mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e2u y\u1ebfm, kh\u00f3 th\u1edf, b\u1ecb \u01b0\u1edbt, b\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3i, mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 v\u00e2n v\u00e2n…<\/span><\/p>\n

Khi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f3c, th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00f3i. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u1ee9 m\u1ed7i khi mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecf c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0o m\u1ed3m ch\u00fang ta. V\u1eady n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n h\u00fat thu\u1ed1c, hay u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u ho\u1eb7c \u0103n nhi\u1ec1u, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u xem nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u. Khi b\u1ea1n b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i, c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n hay ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n, b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 \u0103n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 trong t\u1ee7 l\u1ea1nh s\u1ebd gi\u00fap \u00edch cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t. V\u1eady vi\u1ec7c h\u00fat thu\u1ed1c hay u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u0169ng v\u00ec nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a kinh nghi\u1ec7m qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. Trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi, ch\u00fang ta c\u1edfi m\u1edf nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u r\u1ed7ng tu\u1ebfch: ch\u00fang ta ti\u1ebfp thu th\u00f4ng tin nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t mi\u1ebfng x\u1ed1p.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u1edd quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng quan h\u1ec7 to l\u1edbn v\u1ec1 sau v\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta sau n\u00e0y. M\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c,ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu c\u01b0 x\u1eed trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua khi s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, ch\u00fang ta: – Quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ed1ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang ta. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c cho nh\u1eefng \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch y chang nh\u01b0 b\u1ed1 hay m\u1eb9 ta. – Ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ta v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang ta d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 do ch\u00fang ta h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c tranh ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf v\u00e0 b\u1ee9c tranh n\u00e0y b\u1ea3o l\u00e0, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n “\u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3i cao, ng\u0103m \u0111en v\u00e0 \u00edt n\u00f3i” (nh\u01b0 cha t\u00f4i). Tuy kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft t\u00ed n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u1edf m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5p v\u00e0o b\u1ee9c tranh n\u00e0y.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u0169ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng m\u1eabu c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu l\u00fac nh\u1ecf ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn hay m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xem ch\u00fang ta nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi “x\u1ea5u”. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch, th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3i t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ch\u00fang ta.<\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i,\u00a0ch\u00fang ta thu h\u00fat \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta mong \u0111\u1ee3i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta theo c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta tin l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn<\/i><\/b><\/span>. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 m\u1edbi l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u01b0\u1edbt qua b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t. Tuy nhi\u00ean, nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00fac k\u1ebft Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb m\u1eafc k\u1eb9t v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng m\u1eabu c\u01b0 x\u1eed n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Nh\u1eefng m\u1eabu ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u0169 s\u1ebd c\u00f2n b\u00e1m ta dai d\u1eb3ng nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd d\u1ee9t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc v\u1ec1 tinh th\u1ea7n cho \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 d\u1ec5 nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng cho ch\u00fang th\u1eadt l\u1edbn lao. H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n n\u00f3i t\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 xem nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng theo c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng m\u1eabu m\u1edbi v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e3y nghe nh\u1eefng b\u0103ng cassette khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. H\u00e3y h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd vi\u1ebft l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eabu m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng\u00a0ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng ai kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y. H\u00e3y thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng d\u00f2ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i r\u1ed3i.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u01a1 h\u1ed9i lu\u00f4n \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh ta, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe n\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00ec s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/span><\/p>\n

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